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		<title>Simple Tips for Taking Better Pictures of your Family (or Anything!)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Feb 2011 18:54:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m currently on maternity leave: The following is a guest post by Dariela Cruz. Do you feel that you have a great camera, but your pictures don’t come out as well as you want? If you feel that your pictures are not showing well what you remember in real life or if you would simply [...]]]></description>
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<div style="border: thin; background: #D3D9E7; padding: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px;"><em>I’m currently on maternity leave: The following is a guest post by Dariela Cruz.</em></div>
<p>Do  you feel that you have a great camera, but your pictures don’t come out  as well as you want? If you feel that your pictures are not showing  well what you remember in real life or if you would simply like to  improve your skills in taking pictures, then these tips are for you! I  have compiled eight tips to help you preserve those memories.</p>
<h2>8 Simple Tips for Taking Better Pictures</h2>
<h3>1. Any Camera Will Do</h3>
<p>Now that <strong><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Digital_single-lens_reflex_camera%20">DSLR cameras (Digital Single Lens Reflex)</a></strong> are more affordable for non-professionals, I have noticed there is a lot of <em>want </em>for that type of camera. People might think, “<em>If I have that camera, I will have better pictures</em>.”  And the answer is NO. A great part of the result of a photo lies in the  photographer and not only on the camera. Sure the camera helps, but  there are plenty of great <strong>point-and-shoot cameras</strong> with lots of functions that can help you take a great picture too.</p>
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<h3>2. Always, Always, Always Bring the Camera Wherever you Go!</h3>
<p>You never know when you will have a great photo opportunity. Sometimes I have told myself: “<em>I don’t need to bring my camera. I don’t think I will have time to take any pictures or it will be a horrible place</em>.” Well, I was wrong! And I have regretted it very much because there I was with a great photo opportunity and no camera.</p>
<h3>3. Avoid Using the Flash</h3>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3705" title="Using Natural Light" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/NaturalLight_1.jpg" alt="Using Natural Light" width="375" height="559" /></p>
<p><strong>Flash  makes pictures look less natural</strong>. It adds deep shadows and highly  contrasted areas so, as an example, faces look very harsh. Always,  always turn off the flash, even if you are using the camera on  automatic. Keep in mind that if you are in a place where there is less  light and do not use the flash, once you press the shutter button, the  camera may take longer to take the picture and the picture will look  blurry if you move the camera just a bit.  What you can try to do is  support yourself in a way that you move the minimum while taking the  picture, or if you have a table or a counter where you can place the  camera, that will help as well. Of course, if you own a tripod, use it!</p>
<h3>4. Read your Camera’s User Manual</h3>
<p>Believe it or not, your <strong>camera’s user manual</strong> is where you can learn the most of how to use your camera, as well as <strong>basic principles of photography</strong>.  I know this sounds like a no-brainer, but most of us don’t like to read  manuals and go straight to use the product, since most products are  built very user-friendly these days. <strong><em>But take this tip seriously</em></strong>.  Always experiment with the camera modes, the exposure, and the zoom  until you feel comfortable with your own equipment and, most  importantly, until you feel you <em>know </em>your camera.</p>
<h3>5. Use the Camera Controls, Especially the ISO Setting</h3>
<p>Learn  about ALL the controls your camera has. If you are using a  point-and-shoot camera, try to use the functions for sports, macro, and  so on. All cameras have an <strong>ISO setting</strong>;  this controls the camera’s sensitivity for light. If you are out on a  very sunny day, use a lower ISO (100 for example). If you are taking a  picture of a still object, a low ISO will also work. If you are taking  pictures of moving objects or people &#8211; like kids, a lower ISO (400 or  800) will be much better. This will allow the shutter to go quicker and  the objects won’t appear blurry.</p>
<h3>6. Pay Attention to the Background</h3>
<p>Many  times we look at our subject while taking a picture and forget about  the background. Later we realize that there was a horrible trash can or  lots of people in the background, making the picture busy and  unpleasant. So, be aware that the background plays a huge role in your  photo and remember to look at everything in the frame you are  photographing. This also applies when you are taking pictures of people.  If you are including their complete bodies, don’t cut off the feet or a  hand on the side; include ALL of it, sometimes a cut-off foot just  doesn’t look right.</p>
<h3>7. Take a Picture from a Different Angle</h3>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3707" title="Try Getting Close for Your Picture" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/GetClose_1.jpg" alt="Try Getting Close for Your Picture" width="484" height="291" /></p>
<p>After  you took the picture that you were taking, stop and redo it! Just for  fun, get close to the subject, get further away, place the camera on the  ground or stand on something high and look down! These are just a few  examples. The point is to experiment taking the picture from a different  point of view. The good thing about digital cameras is that you can  take lots of pictures and discard the bad ones easily, so take risks  when you take pictures &#8211; it will be worth it!</p>
<h3>8. Edit your Pictures</h3>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-3708" title="Edit your Photos and Try to Play with Colors" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/PlayWcolor_1.jpg" alt="Edit your Photos and Try to Play with Colors" width="480" height="360" /></p>
<p>You don’t need a professional <strong>photo editing software</strong> for this; you can use the software that sometimes come with cameras. <a href="http://www.apple.com/ilife/iphoto/">iPhoto</a>, <a href="http://tryit.adobe.com/us/photoshopelements/">Photoshop Elements</a>, or <a href="http://picasa.google.com/">Picasa</a> are good too. But, it really helps when you put in that little extra  time to edit your photos. Some simple edits you can always do are:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Adjust contrast</strong>: Try to make the picture brighter with deeper shadows. Using the auto adjust feature is always helpful too.</li>
<li><strong>Crop</strong>: Sometimes a little cropping goes a long way.</li>
<li><strong>Play with colors</strong>: Maybe turn the photo into a black and white photo or use sepia tones? Depending on the picture, this might look great!</li>
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<p>Don’t  worry if you can’t follow all of these tips. If you start at least with  a couple, I guarantee you will notice a difference in your pictures  really quickly. Have fun, and remember that the latest camera might have  amazing features and controls, but a huge part of a nice picture is a  skilled photographer!</p>
<div style="border: 1px dotted navy; background: #7eadd3; color: white; padding: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px;"><em>Dariela  is a graphic designer and a mom that has a strong passion for  photography and enjoys living life. You can see more of her pictures on her blog, <a href="http://www.mamitalks.com/">MamiTalks.com</a>, as well as on her <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dariela/">Flickr page</a>.</em></div>
<p><em>All photos courtesy of Dariela Cruz.</em></p>
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		<title>CEO and WAHM on Balancing Work and Family</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 14:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Guest post: Sandy Salle is a native of Zimbabwe and was born and raised in Southern Africa. She is the Chief Executive Officer of Hills of Africa travel and is passionate about using her first-hand knowledge of Africa to create the trip of a lifetime for her clients. Currently based state-side in North Carolina, she [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/equinoxe-photostudio/4341357167/"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2535" title="South Africa Giraffe Sunset" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/4341357167_83d398a39f.jpg" alt="South Africa Giraffe Sunset" width="485" height="331" /></a></p>
<div style="border: 1px dotted navy; background: #8aa7ec; color: white; padding: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px;"><em><img class="size-full wp-image-2543 alignright" style="margin: 0pt 0 10px 10px;" title="Sandy Salle" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sandy_Salle1.jpg" alt="Sandy Salle" width="150" height="156" />Guest post: Sandy Salle is a native of Zimbabwe and was born and raised in Southern Africa. She is the Chief Executive Officer of <a href="http://hillsofafrica.com/">Hills of Africa travel</a> and is passionate about using her first-hand knowledge of Africa to create the trip of a lifetime for her clients. Currently based state-side in North Carolina, she resides with her husband and two small children. Sandy travels home to Africa several times a year and believes that the next best thing to living in Africa is sharing it with others.</em></div>
<p>Like most <a title="Work at Home Mom Tips and Resources" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/wahm/"><strong>work-at-home mothers</strong></a>, I wage a daily battle against the clock to get the kids dressed, emails sent, homework completed, proposals drafted, calls returned, and dinner cooked all within an impossible twenty-four hours.</p>
<p>Struggling to do it all, I began multitasking, but I found that, when I did everything at once, <em>nothing was done well</em>. This, in turn, led to guilt: I got to the soccer game late, I didn’t have time to distribute the invoices, and I was on conference calls the entire time my daughter and I were making cookies for her class. Wasn’t the whole reason I left the office to <strong>work at home</strong> so that I could spend <em>more time</em> with my kids? Yet, here we were together, and I was so distracted with everything that still had to be done, that I wasn’t present.</p>
<p>As the CEO of Hills of Africa travel, a premier provider of personalized, luxury safari vacations, I have big responsibilities at work. Clients depend on me to plan once-in-a-lifetime safari trips for them, and it’s hard to do that when I am scrambling to clean up the house during the few quiet hours my kids are at school. On the other hand, I don’t want to sacrifice time with my kids. They are only young once, and this time with them is precious. I want them to be experiencing their childhood with me instead of a nanny.</p>
<p>Exhausted, guilt ridden, and overwhelmed, I had to make a change. Here’s what I did . . .</p>
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<h3>Stopped Multitasking</h3>
<p>My first step was to create a structured work schedule around the time my kids are at school, 6:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. During this time, 100% of my energies are focused on Hills of Africa—no more scheduling play dates or baking during conference calls. No matter where I am in my work at 3:30, I close up shop and refocus all my attention on my kids.</p>
<h3>Eliminated Distractions</h3>
<p>The old me would sit in front of the computer first thing in the morning and look through a few emails before jumping up to brew a pot of coffee or download a few songs to listen to while I worked. Each of these small tasks took time and broke my concentration. Now, before I even sit down at my desk, I have cup of coffee in hand, my favorite classical play-list on, and my personal phone line set to go straight to voice-mail, so that I can sit down for several hours of uninterrupted work. It’s amazing how much more I began to accomplish when I wasn’t jumping up to switch the laundry every couple of hours!</p>
<h3>Became Present</h3>
<p>Just being physically there with my kids was not enough. I had to be mentally and emotionally present for our time together to be meaningful. Now, when I’m with my family, I’m not just there, I’m present, listening, and interacting. I mentally free myself from distracting work obligations when I’m with the kids. At the end of the day, my kids crave my attention more than my home-cooked meal, and there’s no shame in occasionally ordering a pizza if it means that we get to eat and engage in conversation together as a family.</p>
<h3>Let It Go</h3>
<p>If that client call has yet to be made and those pots and pans still need to be washed when the kids arrive home, I forget about it. It can get done the next day. I’ve learned that <a title="Super Mom Syndrome and Expectations" href="http://www.modernmami.com/women/super-mom-expectations/">supermom</a> is an impossible notion, and I can’t do everything by myself. I now have my groceries delivered by Peapod and outside assistance with housekeeping. Anything that allows me to focus my work time completely on my job and my family time completely on my kids is a worthwhile expense.</p>
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		<title>15 Tips for Attracting and Connecting With Non-blogging Readers</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 04:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Guest post: Tracy López is a writer of multi-cultural fiction living just outside the DC Metro area. She blogs in Spanglish about the joys and challenges unique to bi-cultural families at Latina-ish. Blogging without readers is about as much fun as throwing a party and having no one show up. Whether you&#8217;re blogging professionally or [...]]]></description>
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<div style="border: 1px dotted navy; background: #8aa7ec; color: white; padding: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px;"><em>Guest post: Tracy López is a writer of multi-cultural fiction living just outside the DC Metro area. She blogs in Spanglish about the joys and  challenges unique to bi-cultural families at <a href="http://latinaish.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Latina-ish</a>.</em></div>
<p>Blogging without readers is about as much fun as throwing a party and  having no one show up. Whether you&#8217;re blogging professionally or  casually, it&#8217;s nice to get a comment and know that you&#8217;ve connected with  others.</p>
<p>When building a loyal readership, it&#8217;s important to  keep in mind that not all your readers are bloggers. In fact, readers  who aren&#8217;t bloggers <em>themselves </em>are very valuable. Non-blogging readers  aren&#8217;t busy tending to their own blogs and thus will have more time to  visit and comment on yours. <strong>But how do you attract non-blogging readers?</strong> Where do you find them and how do you <em>keep </em>them? Here are 15 tips for  building your non-blogging readership.</p>
<h2>15 Tips for Attracting Non-blogging Readers to Your Blog</h2>
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<li><strong></strong><strong>Make sure your blog is  non-blogger friendly.</strong> Some non-bloggers are not technically  inclined. Is the layout easy to follow for them? To test this, ask your grandmother or another older relative to visit your blog and give her  opinion. You might be surprised by some very good suggestions for making  your blog or website easier to navigate.</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t make  commenting a challenge.</strong> Make sure that when people leave a comment,  the only information they need to fill out is their name and possibly  E-mail address. (URL should be optional not mandatory.) Also re-consider  using captchas. A lot of people find them very frustrating.</li>
<li><strong>Make it easy for them to return</strong>. Can they subscribe by E-mail and  RSS? Do you have a distinct favicon so you&#8217;re easy to identify?</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t underestimate word of mouth.</strong> Do you include your blog link in  the signature of your E-mails? Is it on your business card? How about  in your yearly Christmas letter? Don&#8217;t forget to share your blog URL  with your parents, siblings, relatives, friends, co-workers, and  neighbors so that they can pass it on to their friends. Some of my most  loyal readers were friends of my sister, and I didn&#8217;t even know it until  I met them and they told me they loved my blog.</li>
<li><strong>You gotta  give some to get some.</strong> Leave meaningful comments on blogs that are  similar in content to yours. You&#8217;ll attract the blog owner and their  readers. (It isn&#8217;t stealing &#8211; it&#8217;s widening the community.) Guest  blogging is another great option. Invite someone to guest post on your  blog, and consider accepting the offer if someone asks you to guest post  on their blog.</li>
<li><strong>Leave a trail.</strong> Do you have a Facebook  page? Twitter profile? Photos on Flickr? YouTube videos? Sell stuff on  Etsy or Ebay? Review books on Amazon.com?&#8230; Make sure your URL is  somewhere on all of your user pages around the internet.</li>
<li><strong>Ride the buzz.</strong> Once in awhile, write about something that is a &#8220;hot  topic&#8221; in the headlines or in the blogosphere. Of course, don&#8217;t do it  unless it&#8217;s something of interest to you and your readers. If it doesn&#8217;t  fit your regular content, then the readers you attract won&#8217;t stick  around.</li>
<li><strong>Write about something obscure.</strong> Is there  something you&#8217;re an expert on that few people are informed about? Is  there something you really love but you&#8217;ve noticed it&#8217;s hard to find  information about it? When you search online for it, are there almost no  results? Write about that and then when others go searching, you&#8217;ll be  at the top of the results. (Again make sure it fits your content.)</li>
<li><strong>Go find them.</strong> Non-bloggers hang out in forums, message boards,  social networks and chat rooms. Join a conversation on a message board that  is relevant to your blog, and make sure your URL is in your signature.</li>
<li><strong>Study SEO and apply the knowledge.</strong> Knowing a little about search  engine optimization will help you blog effectively so that you&#8217;re easy  to find through internet searches. There are a lot of free tutorials  online. You don&#8217;t have to get into anything complicated. Even applying a  few basic SEO principles will help you.</li>
<li><strong>Make yourself  approachable.</strong> Your E-mail address should be easy to find on your  blog in case someone wants to contact you privately. Also, try your best  to respond to each and every comment left on your blog, whether they&#8217;ve  asked you a question, shared something about themselves, given you a  compliment or even disagreed with you.</li>
<li><strong>Be compatible with  social news websites.</strong> Consider adding buttons to your blog posts so  they can easily be submitted to social news and sharing websites like  Stumbleupon, Digg, Reddit, etc. (But make sure you don&#8217;t add so many  buttons that it looks cluttered.)</li>
<li><strong>Have a Giveaway.</strong> Honestly, most of the people that are attracted by giveaways are coming  for the free stuff and they won&#8217;t be back, but you might grab a reader  here and there. Besides, giveaways are fun. Everyone likes to play Santa  Claus once in awhile, don&#8217;t they?</li>
<li><strong>Watch your statistics.</strong> Some blog platforms come with built in &#8220;stats&#8221; that you can check, or  you can use a third party stat counting website to track how people are  finding you, where they&#8217;re coming from, and where they hang out on your  blog. Keep an eye on this information so you know what&#8217;s working and  what&#8217;s not. This will determine what you spend more time doing, and what  you stop wasting your time on.</li>
<li><strong>&#8220;Content is King&#8221;.</strong> It&#8217;s been said again and again, but maybe it can&#8217;t be said too often.  The biggest rule to remember is that you need to make consistently good  content and be dependable with how frequently you update your blog.</li>
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<p>Happy  blogging, and I wish you many comments! <img src='http://www.modernmami.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p>Facebook. Twitter. MySpace. Plurk. Identi.ca? With so many social media  tools and networks out there, it&#8217;s hard <em>not </em>to get overwhelmed.  How do you choose which to use? How do you keep up with them all? How  much time will it take out of your <strong><em>already </em>busy life</strong>?</p>
<p>Through  trial and error, I&#8217;ve developed a daily routine to keep up with the  various social media accounts I use. When I was working full-time  outside the home, I had to <em>really </em>use my time wisely since I  could not be engaged in social medial all day, but still wanted to <strong><a title="Tips for Managing and Maintaining a Social Media  Presence" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/managing-social-media-presence-tips/">maintain a social media presence</a></strong>. As you know, it&#8217;s  not enough to just have an account, you have to actually use it and be  &#8220;present&#8221; for your social media efforts to work.</p>
<p>Let me share a  sample schedule of how I used social media when I was working full-time.  In the mornings, I had the benefit of an empty home after my husband  left for work and dropped off my daughter at day-care. Since I started  work a little later than him, this meant that <strong>I had about an hour  each morning to do my social media/blog work</strong> before I had to get  myself ready. In this hour, I created the following <strong>social media  routine</strong> and would do most (and sometimes all) of the following.</p>
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<h2>Sample  Social Media Routine</h2>
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<li>Open up my browser and open a tab for  each of these sites: <a id="g9.0" title="ping.fm" href="http://ping.fm/">ping.fm</a>,  myspace, <a id="fo6d" title="ModernMami on Facebook" href="http://www.facebook.com/modernmami">facebook</a>, <a id="tm9x" title="ModernMami on  Plurk" href="http://www.plurk.com/modernmami">plurk</a>, <a id="ppn2" title="ModernMami on Twitter" href="http://twitter.com/modernmami">twitter</a>, <a id="u3bu" title="gmail" href="http://gmail.com/">gmail</a>, <a id="d.5r" title="ModernMami's Google Reader Shared Items" href="http://www.google.com/reader/shared/modernmami">google  reader</a>, and <a id="v0s_" title="ModernMami on Delicious" href="http://delicious.com/modernmami">delicious</a>. As I  completed my tasks for each site, I would close the tab and move on to  the next.</li>
<li>Post a <strong>status update</strong> using ping.fm.</li>
<li><strong>MySpace</strong>:  Even then, MySpace was slowly being phased out of my social media  routine, but since I (still) have some real-life friends and family that  use it, I would check in every morning. It was a very quick check of  messages, comments, and friends&#8217; status updates.</li>
<li><strong>Facebook</strong>:  I would login and respond to any comments or messages sent to me. I  would post a &#8220;Happy Birthday!&#8221; message for those with birthdays that day  and possibly leave a comment or two on others&#8217; profiles. If I had  something to promote &#8211; a contest or my latest post &#8211; I would do so via  my fan page and/or group. Of course, I&#8217;d also take care of any requests  that were waiting for action &#8211; friend requests, even invites, page  suggestions, etc.</li>
<li><strong>Plurk</strong>: Though not a common  microblogging platform, it&#8217;s one I was exploring at the time and  continue to participate in since I&#8217;ve made some connections that are not  elsewhere. Again, I would quickly check in on any replies to my updates  and try to comment on one or two people&#8217;s updates.</li>
<li><strong>Twitter</strong>:  Similar to the rest, I would login to Twitter and be sure to respond to  any @ replies or DMs I received overnight. I would also review new  followers and follow-back appropriately (or not). I would then leave  this tab open since I would often interact with various other folks that  were up early like me.</li>
<li><strong>E-mail</strong>: I use gmail for my  e-mail, which has the ability to star items you need to come back to and  label your messages for finding later. Simple Mom has a <a id="zyqd" title="nice system" href="http://simplemom.net/easier-email/">nice  system</a> she uses for managing her inbox that I try to follow. I  would definitely take about 10 minutes each morning to check urgent  items and clear out the &#8220;junk&#8221; so that it didn&#8217;t clutter up my inbox.</li>
<li><strong>Google  Reader</strong>: I didn&#8217;t always have time to get to reading some blog posts  &#8211; it just depended on how much time I spent on the other tabs. But,  some days, I&#8217;d be able to read a few posts from those blogs you &#8220;must&#8221;  read each day.</li>
<li><strong>Delicious</strong>: Since I have the delicious  plugin installed on Firefox, I&#8217;d only need to open this up if I saw  there was new activity in my network or if anyone had sent me a link.  But, in browsing resources bookmarked by those in my network, I&#8217;d often  find a great article or tip or even a blog post idea.</li>
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<p>Each  morning I&#8217;d go through my routine and get a great head start on my day &#8211;  social media wise, anyway. Then, during the day while I was at work, I  would monitor twitter, facebook, and e-mail <a title="Using a Smart Phone to Be More Productive" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/smart-phone-productivity/">using my  smart phone</a>. Of course, I wasn&#8217;t always on it. But if I took a quick  break from my desk and especially during lunch time, I&#8217;d be able to  update my status (again using ping.fm) and check in on comments.</p>
<p>In  the evenings, after dinner and the nightly bed-time/bath routine for  baby girl, I&#8217;d take another hour (sometimes two depending on how busy  the husband was) to go through the same routine. However, I would focus  less on checking comments/messages and more so on clearing out e-mail  and writing a blog post.</p>
<p><strong>Wondering what I do now that I&#8217;m not  working full-time?</strong> The same. Though I don&#8217;t always have the house to  myself in the mornings anymore, I still take a half-hour to an hour  each morning and use the same social media routine. The days that baby  girl goes to preschool, I do this routine after I&#8217;ve dropped her off.  The days she&#8217;s home with me, I use the time when she&#8217;s eating breakfast  and watching her morning cartoons. If I&#8217;m lucky and she&#8217;s overslept, I  go through my routine before she wakes up.</p>
<p>Through the rest of  the day, I periodically check in on social media and e-mail. As I  mentioned in a previous post, I tend to login again mid-day and in the  evening. I try to follow my social media routine each time, but  depending on other projects/tasks I have to get done, I may cut my  routine in half during those times.</p>
<p><strong>Seem like a lot to-do?</strong> Keep in mind that you don&#8217;t have to have accounts for all the sites  that I do. You will find those that serve your needs the best.  Truthfully, though, once you get into a routine, it will become habit  and not be so overwhelming.</p>
<p><strong>Additional tips</strong>:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Always  answer </strong>@ replies, DMs, comments, etc. for the various networks you  belong to. It&#8217;s so frustrating when you&#8217;re trying to talk to someone and  they ignore you, isn&#8217;t it? Don&#8217;t ignore.</li>
<li><strong>Catch what you can  while logged on</strong>. You won&#8217;t be able to read every single status  update for every single network you belong to.</li>
<li><strong>Retweet </strong>interesting  statuses, <strong>share </strong>good information, and useful links/resources.  Your readers will appreciate it and will come to know that you have  valuable information.</li>
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<p><strong>Have you already created your  social media routine?</strong></p>
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		<title>3 Tips To Help You Manage Your Social Media Presence</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every once in a while someone will make a comment about how they &#8220;see me everywhere&#8221; online. I&#8217;m on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Plurk, Delicious, StumbleUpon, Friendfeed, and various Ning communities. There&#8217;s actually more places to find me, but those are the most commonly known ones. Naturally, I&#8217;m also asked how I can keep up with [...]]]></description>
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<p>Every once in a while someone will make a comment about how they &#8220;see me  everywhere&#8221; online. I&#8217;m on <a id="ttpc" title="Twitter" href="http://twitter.com/modernmami">Twitter</a>, <a id="po_9" title="Facebook" href="http://facebook.com/modernmami">Facebook</a>,  <a id="gu35" title="LinkedIn" href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/modernmami">LinkedIn</a>, <a id="oe.n" title="Plurk" href="http://www.plurk.com/modernmami">Plurk</a>, <a id="sknz" title="Delicious" href="http://delicious.com/modernmami">Delicious</a>,  <a id="vpa2" title="Stumbleupon" href="http://modernmami.stumbleupon.com/">StumbleUpon</a>, <a id="y83i" title="Friendfeed" href="http://friendfeed.com/modernmami">Friendfeed</a>,  and various Ning communities. There&#8217;s actually more places to find me,  but those are the most commonly known ones. Naturally, I&#8217;m also asked  how I can keep up with <strong>multiple social media accounts</strong>. Typical  questions include:</p>
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<li>Do you log on to all the different sites  to update them?</li>
<li>How often do you update your status/account?</li>
<li>Are  you <em>always </em>on your computer?</li>
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<p>I&#8217;d like to say I&#8217;m just  that talented, but the reality is that there are tools out there that  help me keep up and make it &#8220;seem&#8221; like I&#8217;m everywhere. Some are  web-based, and others are self-created, but all help me stay on top of  my <strong>social media presence</strong>. I&#8217;m going to give you three simple  ideas for helping you <strong>be more present</strong> in your social media  efforts without going crazy.</p>
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<h2><a title="Tips for Managing Your Social Media Presence" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/managing-social-media-presence-tips/">3 Tips To Help You Manage Your  Social Media Presence</a></h2>
<h3>1. Use Online Tools</h3>
<p>Using tools  like <a id="x1f:" title="Ping.fm" href="http://ping.fm/">Ping.fm</a> can  help you <strong>update multiple social media accounts with one step</strong>.  You create one account on Ping.fm, link it to all your other accounts,  and <strong>update your status for all of them from one place</strong>. I use this  to update Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Plurk, BrightKite, Identi.ca,  and a few other sites all <strong>by sending <em>one </em>message</strong>. The even  better part is that you can link your Ping.fm account to your cell  phone, Skype, AIM, and other instant messaging platforms to update your  status on the go. That is, you don&#8217;t have to go to the Ping.fm site to  update all of your accounts &#8211; you can do it by simply sending a text  from your phone or an instant message.</p>
<p>Something else I often do  is pre-schedule updates using sites like <a id="h:-x" title="SocialOomph" href="http://www.socialoomph.com/">SocialOomph</a>,  <a id="kegb" title="objective  marketer" href="http://objectivemarketer.com/">ObjectiveMarketer</a>, or <a id="sni4" title="HootSuite" href="http://hootsuite.com/">HootSuite</a>. With these sites, you can  create a message and publish it at a later time. Some even allow you to  set the message on a repeat schedule, if it&#8217;s something you want to be  seen at different times of the day or for multiple days at a time. This  is great because it means you can go to work all day, run some errands,  spend some time with the family, or have some fun and your social media  presence doesn&#8217;t suffer.</p>
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<h3>2. Schedule Your Social Media Time</h3>
<p>This  is one of those self-created tools that has helped me. I try to have  set times in my day that I dedicate to managing my social media  accounts. I use those times to update my status, respond to  comments/replies I received, and manage requests (i.e., followers,  friend requests, group/page suggestions). This works better for me than  constantly having the windows open on my computer. I can continue to  work on other things and know that I won&#8217;t be tempted to keep clicking  over to check for the <em>latest </em>comment. Taking breaks throughout  the day from social media doesn&#8217;t greatly affect your presence. People  know that you have a life that <em>just may</em> take you away from your  computer. It&#8217;s ok to have chunks of the day where you&#8217;re more  interactive than others.</p>
<p>For me, what seems to work the best is  to check in on social media about three times throughout the day &#8211; on  average. Some days I only check in once or twice, but generally  speaking, <strong>I log on in the morning, mid-day, and evening</strong>. I find  that this keeps me up to date, present, and coincides with the majority  of people&#8217;s schedules. There are those who work early in the morning  before the kids are up or before heading out to their &#8220;day job.&#8221; There  are also those that take a lunch break and those that work after the  kids go to sleep. By checking in on my social media accounts during each  set period, I can interact with a variety of people and those in  different time zones from me.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t spend a large chunk of time  during any of those three periods, either. I log on to each site,  respond or manage requests, and move on to the next. Unless something  extremely interesting caught my eye or required me to spend more time  managing the situation, I typically complete my social media rounds  within 30 minutes, if that.</p>
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<h3>3. Use a Smart Phone</h3>
<p>A couple of  weeks ago I wrote a post about how I <strong><a id="zv.x" title="How to Increase Productivity and Help Balance Work and Life Using Your Smart Phone" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/smart-phone-productivity/">use a smart  phone to increase productivity</a></strong>. I included ideas for managing  home tasks and personal calendars, as well as blogging and social media  tasks. Like I mentioned in that post, it helps to fill in some gaps  throughout the day where you may find yourself with some time, but  you&#8217;re not near a computer. You can update your status &#8211; use that text  feature from Ping.fm &#8211; or check in on a few comments you may have  received. Either way, you can easily be present while on the go.</p>
<p>I  know you&#8217;ll find these tools to be useful and will eventually find the  right combination that works for you. If you&#8217;re already familiar with  these tools, you know what a great help they can be for managing your  social media presence. <strong>What do you find works for you? Let&#8217;s hear <em>your </em>tips in the comments below.</strong></p>
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