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		<title>Avon Home Business Advice from Avon Regional Vice President</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 00:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our last Avon representative interview in our Avon home business series was held earlier this month. I spoke with Maria Sutej, a Regional Vice President in Sales at Avon Products, Inc. Maria has been with Avon since 1983, when she began as a District Sales Manager. Twenty-nine years is a long time, but Maria said [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4782" style="margin: 0 10px 10px 0;" title="Maria Sutej, Avon Regional Vice President in Sales" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Maria-Sutej-avon-vice-president-sales-240x300.jpg" alt="Maria Sutej, Avon Regional Vice President in Sales" width="220" height="275" />Our last Avon representative interview in our <a title="Avon Home Business" href="http://www.modernmami.com/tag/avon/"><strong>Avon home business series</strong></a> was held earlier this month. I spoke with <strong>Maria Sutej, a Regional Vice President in Sales</strong> at <a href="http://www.facebook.com/AvonProductsInc" rel="nofollow">Avon Products, Inc</a>. Maria has been with Avon since 1983, when she began as a District Sales Manager. Twenty-nine years is a long time, but Maria said she &#8220;<em>&#8230;started this for fun, but had no idea it could be SO much fun</em>!&#8221;</p>
<p>Maria shared that there are two ways Avon representatives can make money: 1) by building a <a title="Home-Based Business and Work at Home Resources" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/wahm/"><strong>home business</strong></a> based only on Avon sales and 2) by taking advantage of the leadership opportunity. She says the latter is where the true business opportunity lies, in not only selling to customers, but also recruiting new representatives. For maximum earning potential, Maria suggests representatives do both.</p>
<p>Maria also shared a couple of stories of Avon representatives she&#8217;s come in contact with over the years. She told us about Linda Jones, who was laid off from a corporate job about six years ago and started selling Avon due to the loss of income. Linda now sells $78,000 of product per year and earns about half of that. Another story Maria shared was that of  Donna Reed Mitchell, who is originally from Jamaica and started her Avon career in New York. Donna&#8217;s daughter was diagnosed with an illness requiring her to home-school. Donna is a Sr. Executive Unit Leader earning a six-figure income and says she wouldn&#8217;t be able to home-school if it weren&#8217;t for her Avon business.</p>
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<p>Maria&#8217;s advice for new representatives is to start approaching not only people you know, but also people you don&#8217;t know at various places you go. She said if you want to build a big business, you need to establish yourself. Her suggestion is that representatives list places they frequent and think of who they can approach. A key reminder is to not be afraid of approaching strangers; as Maria said, most people&#8217;s response is &#8220;<em>I haven&#8217;t seen an Avon brochure in years</em>!&#8221;</p>
<p>I asked Maria how Avon representatives can take advantage of social media to market their Avon businesses. She responded that Facebook is a great way to spread word and that she sees a lot of representatives using it to launch their business. Maria also mentioned that the internal Avon site has Internet marketing tools to help representatives, including videos, e-cards, and other content.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s clear that success through an Avon home business can be different for everyone. In interviewing the various Avon representatives over the past few months, we&#8217;ve seen a variety of levels of earning potential and business models. I think the great thing in all that is that Avon provides flexibility and allows each representative to create the home business that&#8217;s right for them.</p>
<p><strong><em>Have you ever explored Avon as a home business opportunity?</em></strong></p>
<p><em>Disclosure: I am being compensated for my work with Avon.</em></p>
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		<title>Avon Representative Helping Kids&#8217; Schools Through Part-Time Avon Home Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 16:09:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our partnership with Avon continues with a second profile of an Avon representative. I had the chance to speak last month with Yesenia Ward who lives in Las Vegas, Nevada and has been with Avon since October 2007.  She moved to Vegas from California and as a stay at home mom (SAHM), she was seeking [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4599" style="margin: 0 10px 10px 0;" title="Yesenia Ward, Avon Representative" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Yesenia.jpg" alt="Yesenia Ward, Avon Representative" width="162" height="209" />Our <a title="Avon Home Business Series" href="http://www.modernmami.com/women/avon-home-business-125-anniversary/">partnership with Avon</a> continues with a second profile of an <a title="Avon on Facebook" href="http://www.facebook.com/AvonProductsInc">Avon</a> representative. I had the chance to speak last month with Yesenia Ward who lives in Las Vegas, Nevada and has been with Avon since October 2007.  She moved to Vegas from California and as a <a title="Stay at Home Mom Resources" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/sahm/"><strong>stay at home mom (SAHM)</strong></a>, she was seeking something that would allow her to have more adult interaction. Soon after, she found an Avon brochure in her driveway; she considered the find to be a sign, so she called to inquire about selling.</p>
<p>Yesenia was already familiar with Avon, since growing up, her mom often had Avon books around the house and was an Avon customer. Her whole family is involved in her business; her two sons especially, ages six and seven, help bag and deliver products. Yesenia mentioned that some customers even request to have their products delivered by her sons!</p>
<p>With Avon, you can make the business your own and work as much or as little as you want. Yesenia takes advantage of this and runs her business mostly part-time, but full-time during her boys&#8217; school breaks. She estimates she puts in about five hours a day while her boys are in school.</p>
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<p>The  majority of Yesenia&#8217;s business comes from one-on-one face-to-face meetings. She carries business cards and also has a website through the Avon site. Lots of people contact her through the website for both purchasing as well as for more information on becoming an Avon representative. Yesenia also uses Facebook to advertise her Avon link and keep family informed.</p>
<p>Since the majority of her business comes from personal interactions, it&#8217;s no wonder that word of mouth is the top way Yesenia finds new representatives. She explained to me that her mom works at a casino and shares information on Yesenia&#8217;s business to customers. Yesenia&#8217;s husband is in the army, so another way word spreads is through the wives of his coworkers.</p>
<p>I asked Yesenia what keeps her motivated to continue her Avon business, to which she responded that she loves she can work on her own time without a boss. She shares her story with new representatives and lets them know how easy it is for their schedule. She says, &#8220;Avon sells itself with not a lot of effort.&#8221; Yesenia  has about fifteen representatives under her and periodically meets with them one-on-one. She would like to host in-home parties, but hasn&#8217;t been able to yet.</p>
<p>It took Yesenia a while to make money selling Avon. At first, she started selling only to friends and family. After three months of selling Avon, she became a unit leader, which is when she started seeing more income come in. Any income Yesenia earns always goes towards her kids&#8217; schools, their supplies, etc.</p>
<p>Yesenia&#8217;s story is different from our last featured Avon representative, <a title="Latina Avon Representative Home Business Entrepreneur" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/avon-representative-builds-home-business/">Sylvia Tamayo</a>, but that is the beauty of being an Avon representative and selling Avon products. You can make your Avon business be whatever you want it to be. In fact, I&#8217;d say that&#8217;s the top benefit of any <a title="Home-Based Business and Work at Home Resources" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/wahm/"><strong>home-based business</strong></a> and being your own boss! <em>Don&#8217;t you think?</em></p>
<p><em>Disclosure: I am being compensated for my work with Avon.</em></p>
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		<title>Tricks for Entertaining Kids when Working from Home?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 20:03:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life with two kids is hectic. I thought my energetic 5-year-old kept me busy enough, but it’s ten times worse now. My days are full of too many diaper changes to count, slobbery shirts, and constant noise. That’s what gets to me the most I think. The noise. And, it’s not even coming from the [...]]]></description>
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<p>Life with two kids is <em>hectic</em>. I thought my energetic 5-year-old kept me busy enough, but it’s ten times worse now. My days are full of too many diaper changes to count, slobbery shirts, and constant noise. That’s what gets to me the most I think. <em>The noise</em>. And, it’s not even coming from the baby, really! Instead, the majority of the noise comes from my daughter.</p>
<p>I’m accustomed to baby noise. He cries, I figure out what’s bothering him, fix it, and we move on. But with her, it’s <em>constant </em>attention these days. It’s always, “<em>Mommy, look at this</em>,” or “<em>Mommy, should I put this dress or this one on my doll</em>?” or any other form of calling my attention. This is not during the times we are playing together, but rather during the designated “mommy is working and you need to keep busy” times.</p>
<p>You see, she used to attend preschool five days a week from 9-5. However, we had to cut back and she’s now attending only 3 hours each day. When you account for driving time to drop her off and pick her up, I only get 2 hours each day without her home with me. I’m still trying to adjust to the change.</p>
<p>I’ve attempted a variety of ways to keep her busy so that I can get some work done each day. From following a similar schedule to the one at her preschool, to letting her <a title="Online Computer Games for Toddlers and Preschoolers" href="http://www.modernmami.com/toddlers/computer-games-preschoolers/">play games on the laptop</a> while I work on another computer. They work for a bit, but without fail, she will come up to me to ask questions or simply to tell me about the activity she’s doing &#8211; like a narrator.</p>
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<p>I love that she shares so much with me and definitely don’t want to discourage that. After all, less than 10 years from now she’ll be in her prime teenage years and will probably not want to share anything with me. So, of course, I want to create a habit of healthy conversation. But, <strong>I do need to get some work done</strong>. No work, no income.</p>
<p>I even explained that to her, “<em>If mommy doesn’t get any work done, then I won’t get paid. I need to get paid so we can pay for food, clothes, our house and all the nice things you have</em>.” Yesterday I took a different approach and compared my work deadlines to homework: “<em>I have to be sure I get this work done today. It’s like your homework. If you don’t turn it in the day it’s due, that’s no good, right? So, it’s the same with my work</em>.” And, she actually understood and responded with “<em>If you don’t turn it in, you might get fired</em>!”</p>
<p>But, alas, here we are again another day with her seeing me working and still talking to me just as much. I really hate to have to say, “<em>Just be quiet so I can get some work done</em>!” It seems like that may be where we’re headed, though.</p>
<p><strong>That’s why I want to know what works for you. </strong><em><strong>What are your tricks for getting some work done while your kids are home with you? Share your best tips for entertaining the kids when working from home!<br />
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		<title>7 Tips for Finding &#8216;Me&#8217; Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 15:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post was first published on November 30, 2009. Plenty of people find it difficult to get some time alone. We&#8217;re all busy with work, our home life, family, activities, and just life in general. It can be hard to find some time for yourself. But, more and more, I see that women and moms [...]]]></description>
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<div style="border: 1px solid #DCDFE0; padding: 10px; margin-bottom: 1em; background-color: #f5f0f1;"><em>This post was first published on November 30, 2009.<br />
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<p>Plenty of people find it difficult to get some time alone. We&#8217;re all busy with work, our home life, family, activities, and just life in general. It can be hard to find some <strong>time for yourself</strong>. But, more and more, I see that <a title="Women Issues " href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/women/"><strong>women</strong></a> and <a title="moms - mothers - mamas" href="http://www.modernmami.com/tag/moms/"><strong>moms</strong></a> in particular, complain the most about getting some time for themselves &#8211; some &#8216;<strong>me&#8217; time</strong>.</p>
<p>It seems that men either don&#8217;t require <strong>&#8216;me&#8217; time</strong> as much as women do or they just don&#8217;t admit it. At any rate, it makes sense that parents are often the ones asking how they can get a little time alone and away from the everyday.</p>
<p>I thought about some of the ways that I manage to keep my sanity and <strong><a title="Self Balance - Balance for Moms" href="http://www.modernmami.com/tag/balance/">balance</a> </strong>out my life a little bit. Ok, well, maybe not my <em>life</em>, but my head at least.</p>
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<h3><a title="Tips for Finding 'Me' Time" href="http://www.modernmami.com/life/get-me-time-alone/">7 Tips for Finding &#8216;Me&#8217; Time</a></h3>
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<li><strong>Take a break to goof around on the Internet.</strong> Whether it be a quick tour of your <strong>favorite <a id="enki" title="social media - social networking" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/social-networking/">social media networks</a></strong> or <strong>visiting your preferred <a id="ia6r" title="blogs worth reading - blogs to read" href="http://www.modernmami.com/blogging/blogs-worth-reading/">blogs to read</a></strong> or just simply doing a bit of <strong><a id="ms4_" title="shopping online" href="http://www.modernmami.com/life/online-shopping-shoes-clothes/">online shopping</a></strong>, you will be amazed how a few minutes online can easily give your brain a much needed break from reality.</li>
<li><strong>Pretend you have to use the bathroom.</strong> I know this sounds crazy. Believe me, I do. However, when you&#8217;ve got too much going on and it seems like it&#8217;ll be a while before you can break from it, this may be a temporary solution. Just lock the bathroom door and give yourself 10 minutes of quiet. If you have a magazine rack in your bathroom or leave a book in there, you can even catch up on some of that reading you&#8217;ve been meaning to do. And sweetie&#8230;if you&#8217;re reading this&#8230;I <em>never </em>do this. Ever.</li>
<li><strong>Take a shower. Or bath. Make it a LONG one.</strong> Don&#8217;t rush your shower. Take a few extra minutes to just let the warm water hit your back. Or spend a bit more time working the shampoo into your hair. If you can take a nice relaxing bubble bath, then even better!</li>
<li><strong>Enforce bedtime.</strong> Make sure that your kids stick to their bedtime. I can&#8217;t tell you how much I love the 2-3 hours each night after my baby girl goes to sleep. Most of the time, I end up spending this time either working or watching some TV with my husband, but there&#8217;s times that I get those hours all to myself if I plan in advance.</li>
<li><strong>Meditate. Pray. Reflect. </strong>Whatever you call it and however you do it, taking some time to think about things can do wonders for clearing your head of all the noise. You can easily do this while driving, cooking, or cleaning.</li>
<li><strong>Exercise.</strong> Go for a 20 minute walk. Do a quick yoga routine. Or dance along to some music.</li>
<li><strong>Go grocery shopping.</strong> It&#8217;s something that needs to be done anyway, isn&#8217;t it? Leave everyone else at home and go by yourself. You may even get the shopping done faster than normal (but not TOO fast, ok?).</li>
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<p>These tips may not be glamorous. They may not include a night out on the town with your girls. But, they&#8217;re realistic and can offer some simple yet effective ways for you to feel like you&#8217;re getting a little <strong>&#8216;me&#8217; time</strong> in for yourself. Also? I hope it&#8217;s obvious that if you have kids, you&#8217;ll clearly need to have someone supervising them when you&#8217;re getting your <strong>&#8216;me&#8217; time</strong>. Especially if you&#8217;re locking yourself in the bathroom. <img src='http://www.modernmami.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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<em>How do you find some time for yourself? What do you normally do with your &#8216;me&#8217; time?</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Setting a Good Example for My Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 05:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Guest post: Cissa Fireheart blogs at Heart of Fire, and when she&#8217;s not there or Twittering, she is busy being a full-time student and mother. And going to Disney World, as many times as she can convince her husband to let her go. Before moving back to the Sunshine State, I worked full-time while my [...]]]></description>
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<div style="border: 1px dotted navy; background: #8aa7ec; color: white; padding: 10px; margin-bottom: 15px;"><em>Guest post: Cissa Fireheart blogs at <a href="http://cissafireheart.com/">Heart of Fire</a>,  and  when she&#8217;s not there or <a href="http://www.twitter.com/CissaFireheart">Twittering</a>,   she is busy being a full-time student and mother. And going to Disney   World, as many times as she can convince her husband to let her go.</em></div>
<p>Before moving back to the  Sunshine State, I worked full-time while my husband served in the US  Navy. I had dropped out of college to marry my husband and raise a  family. Once my kids started school, I went back to work. It was a  good job and I tried to advance, but was repeatedly denied a promotion  because I didn&#8217;t have a little piece of paper that said I graduated.</p>
<p>It  was frustrating because I knew I could do the job, considering I had  filled in for the job on a few occasions when illness or  emergencies struck.</p>
<p>It was a blow to my ego. And it angered me on  several levels.</p>
<p>About a month before we moved back here, my  husband generously transferred his Post 9/11 GI Bill to me, so that I  could finish something I started 15 years ago. I tried to talk  him out of it so <em>he</em> could better himself,  but that was like talking to a brick wall. He wanted me to go and  finish because he knew I wanted it so badly.</p>
<p>And  so, as an adult, I returned to college.</p>
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<p>The school I attend is a  popular university with military and former military, and I attend a  satellite campus in Orlando. I love it. I take one on-line and one  on-campus class a week for 8 weeks, and because we have short terms, the  classes are long and intense. Seems just about perfect.</p>
<p>And  it is, when <strong><em>I am not busy being a full-time mother</em></strong>.</p>
<p>I  wonder often if I am the only mother in the world who puts aside work so  that I can better myself. There are times I deal with a large amount of  guilt when I tell the kids I can&#8217;t give them attention because I  am busy on a paper, reading, or homework. I know the goal is to get my  degree so that I can get a better job and provide more for my family,  but I wonder if I am not doing damage to my kids at times. I think many  mothers who go back to school experience this, and suffer as much as I  do, possibly worse.</p>
<p>I remember my own mother graduating from college  when I was a kid. She wasn&#8217;t around much. One thing I want to do  differently is to actually <em>use </em>my degree after graduation. My mother  didn&#8217;t and I wonder why she wasted her time, ignoring my brother and I  for those years (at least it seemed like it), if she wasn&#8217;t going to use  the degree to justify the expense and time away from her children.  Nothing changed after she graduated; we were still poor and she still  worked a low-paying job. I can list, several times over, the things that  her money could have been spent on. Food for us for school lunch is  just one item on that list.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want my college  completion making an impact on my children in a negative way. I  try to counter my times of isolation for study with times spent at a  theme park, walking 5K&#8217;s with them, or even at the community pool. My  children need to know that the hard work I put in and that sacrificing  some time with them is going to be worth it in the end. I don&#8217;t want  them to resent me for my one selfish act, because I <em>will</em> better all of our lives when  I&#8217;m done.</p>
<p>I believe I will be making Dean&#8217;s List after this  term, and my goal is to maintain that throughout my college career.  I want to inspire them to greatness now, before it&#8217;s too late, and they  become the procrastinating sloth I was for many years. Part of doing  this is proving to my family that you <em>can </em>do things for yourself, for the sake of your family, and  still be there for them. I&#8217;m hell-bent on not letting them down. As  their greatest teacher, I can only teach by example, so it has to be a  good example. They will be better off for all the sacrifice on their  parts. And that motivates me to do well far beyond anything else.</p>
<p>I  want to be the “modern mami” who can do it all and have a thriving  family. I just have to keep up the hard work. I hope to be an example to  other mothers in the world who feel like they aren&#8217;t worth bettering  themselves with education. I&#8217;m going to come out on the other  side of this experience and show the women who have doubts that it can  be done, and they will know it&#8217;s worth it in the end.</p>
<p><strong><em>Is  inspiration the word?</em></strong> Maybe. I prefer the term “<strong>setting a good example</strong>,”  because sometimes, showing <em>how </em>it can be done is better  than simple inspiration.</p>
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		<title>Do You Expect to be a Super Mom?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 14:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post was first published on July 11, 2007. At that time, I was still working full-time outside the home and struggling to find some work-life balance. Though I know I can still improve areas of my work-home life, I&#8217;ve come a long way. *Note: Slight edits have been made to the original post. What [...]]]></description>
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<div style="border: 1px solid #DCDFE0; padding: 10px; margin-bottom: 1em; background-color: #f5f0f1;"><em>This post was first published on July 11, 2007. At that time, I was still working full-time outside the home and struggling to find some <a title="Work Life Balance Tips and Information for Busy Working Moms and WAHMs" href="http://www.modernmami.com/tag/work-life-balance">work-life balance</a>. Though I know I can still improve areas of my work-home life, I&#8217;ve come a long way. *Note: Slight edits have been made to the <a href="http://www.modernmami.com/motherhood/working-mothers/">original post</a>.<br />
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<p>What a hectic week so far. Work is super busy. Of course, the home life is always hectic.</p>
<p>I find that more often than not, I have an inner battle going on. Part of me knows that I <em>can&#8217;t possibly</em> keep up with everything &#8211;  home, work, husband, daughter, myself, parents, etc.</p>
<p>Yet, the other half, for whatever unknown ridiculous reason, has it  in her head that she should be able to keep up with <em>everything</em>. Not just  should, but MUST.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s insane.</p>
<p>I realized the other day that this is probably due to <strong>years of  brainwashing</strong> from my mother. And, when I say brainwashing, I mean that  in the <em>nicest way possible</em>. Obviously, she did not set out to corrupt my  mind. But, through example, it happened.</p>
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<p>You see, my mother was a <a title="Stay at Home Moms (SAHM) Information" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/sahm/">stay at  home mom</a> &#8211; way before that was even a term; in fact, I believe the  term at the time was &#8220;housewife.&#8221; <img src='http://www.modernmami.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Since she stayed home with us until I was about 12 or so, I  watched her keep the house in an <em>impeccable</em> state of cleanliness.  She had no clutter, no baskets of laundry just waiting to be folded, no  dust, and <em>always </em>had dinner on the table when my father came home from  work.</p>
<p>Even when she did start working, she still managed to come home from  work, and get right to the kitchen. Maybe it had something to do with  our Puerto Rican culture. But, whatever it was, it still amazes me how  she did it.</p>
<p>I struggle on a daily basis to be able to just put a quick dinner  together. To spend some time with my <a href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/the-monkey/">baby  girl</a> after a long day at work. Don&#8217;t even mention trying to squeeze  in some time for <a href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/husband/">the  husband</a>.</p>
<p>I think (well actually, it was brought to my attention by the husband  recently) that because I grew up seeing her manage so well, I now have  these extremely high (and false) expectations of myself. The fact that she often talked with me about having to be a &#8220;good wife,&#8221; probably added on to it as well. Let me give you an example of something I grew up hearing. Verbatim, my mom used to say, &#8220;<em>You have to learn how to cook and clean, because when you get older and get married, you&#8217;ll need to take care of your house, husband, and children</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p>Though I&#8217;m extremely grateful that my mother taught me how to cook and properly clean, hearing this growing up and seeing her manage the &#8220;super mom&#8221; role well, has resulted in me trying to achieve the same. It&#8217;s actually quite frustrating.</p>
<p><strong>How do you manage to keep up? Do you find you have <em>false </em>expectations  for yourself?</strong></p>
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		<title>Will Work for Food?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:38:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s been a lot of buzz recently regarding moms who blog and whether or not we should get paid for hosting giveaways. If you&#8217;ve ever hosted a giveaway on your blog before, you know there&#8217;s a lot of work involved. And if you don&#8217;t know just how much, let me break it down for you. [...]]]></description>
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<p>There&#8217;s been a lot of buzz recently regarding <strong>moms who blog</strong> and  whether or not we should get paid for hosting giveaways. If you&#8217;ve ever  hosted a giveaway on your blog before, you know there&#8217;s a lot of work  involved. And if you don&#8217;t know just how much, let me break it down for  you. On average, if you want your giveaway to be successful, then for  each blog contest hosted, you usually have to:</p>
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<li>Review the  items/services.</li>
<li>Write a blog post, many times including  personal images or even video you create.</li>
<li>Promote the  contest via various social media outlets.</li>
<li>Promote the contest on  other blogs and sweepstakes sites.</li>
<li>Draw a winner.</li>
<li>Contact  the winner.</li>
<li>Contact the contest sponsor with winner&#8217;s  information.</li>
<li>Follow-up with winner and/or sponsor if necessary.</li>
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<p>With  all the <em>other millions of things</em> that <strong>busy moms</strong> who blog  have going on in their lives (blogging-related or not), that can take a  lot of time out of your week.</p>
<p>As many have said, when you&#8217;re  writing about any product or brand, you&#8217;re helping to promote them. It  may not be equivalent to the promotion they&#8217;d receive on a larger  website or on TV, etc., but it&#8217;s <em>still promoting them</em>. And, a  blog giveaway is promoting them <em>multiple ways</em>. Think about it.</p>
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<p>Not  only are you writing about them on your blog (which lives forever via  search engines), you&#8217;re also talking about them on social media. If you  tweet about your contest 3 times a day for a week (standard length of a  contest), you&#8217;re already at <strong>over 20 mentions for that one brand</strong>.  So, for any given blog contest, you&#8217;ll probably be promoting that  product or brand about <em>25 times</em>.</p>
<p>Most bloggers do all of  that promotion and work for <em>free</em>.</p>
<p>Now, I know that many  bloggers do it to increase their page views, or to provide a good  promotion to their readers. For many, that&#8217;s enough reward. Others feel  that receiving the product in exchange for hosting the giveaway, is  equivalent to payment. My opinion? In some cases, it <em>might </em>be  enough. But, <strong>it depends</strong>. It depends on your personal situation,  what you feel is worth your time, and what you feel is valuable to your  readers.</p>
<p>However, <strong>if you&#8217;re doing all that work in exchange  for a $20 product, which you&#8217;ll then have to claim on your taxes as  income &#8211; is it <em>really </em>worth it? </strong></p>
<p>Recently, I was  approached about a new blogger program in which this brand was looking  to partner with &#8220;five influential bloggers&#8221; for a giveaway. The program  pitch requested that you post on your blog 6 consecutive days, with a  total of seven blog posts to be written. This included not only your own  giveaway, but also cross-promoting the other bloggers&#8217; giveaways.<strong> SEVEN  blog posts</strong> &#8211; one each weekday (two the day of your contest), plus an  extra introductory post. That is a lot of blog posts for one particular  brand and will dominate your blog.</p>
<p>Of course, I respectfully  declined participation in the program and let them know that it was  entirely too much to ask of any blogger without it being a compensated  or sponsored program. I just could not see myself participating and  doing all that work, to then have to claim $200 worth of products on  next year&#8217;s taxes with <strong>no money in my pocket to show for it</strong>.</p>
<p>I  share all this because I really want PR companies and brands to think  about what you&#8217;re asking from bloggers before you pitch them. <strong>Are you  going beyond creating a mutually benefiting relationship with that  blogger and <em>taking advantage</em> of the free ad-space? </strong></p>
<p>I  also want my fellow bloggers to think about how much work you&#8217;re putting  into each giveaway and really consider if it&#8217;s worth your time. I know  I&#8217;ve agreed to host contests in the past that in the long-run were not  truly beneficial to either my readers or to myself. I&#8217;m starting to  learn from those mistakes, though. Plus, like I said &#8211; whether you host a  giveaway and put in all that work for free is your decision and depends  on your personal situation. It <em>might </em>be worth it. All I ask  though is that you <strong>think about it first before responding to the pitch</strong>.</p>
<p>P.S.  If you happen to know the brand/pitch I&#8217;m referring to in this post  because you too received the pitch and/or are actually participating in  the program, <strong>please don&#8217;t mention the name in the comments</strong>. My  purpose is not to slander any given brand, but rather to share my  experience so we can all learn from each other.</p>
<p>Extra reading: <a id="m7yq" title="Show Me the Money" href="http://shamable.com/2010/03/show-me-the-money/">Show Me the Money</a> by Audrey Binkowski</p>
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		<title>Daily Social Media Routine &#8211; Do You Have One?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 04:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Facebook. Twitter. MySpace. Plurk. Identi.ca? With so many social media tools and networks out there, it&#8217;s hard not to get overwhelmed. How do you choose which to use? How do you keep up with them all? How much time will it take out of your already busy life? Through trial and error, I&#8217;ve developed a [...]]]></description>
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<p>Facebook. Twitter. MySpace. Plurk. Identi.ca? With so many social media  tools and networks out there, it&#8217;s hard <em>not </em>to get overwhelmed.  How do you choose which to use? How do you keep up with them all? How  much time will it take out of your <strong><em>already </em>busy life</strong>?</p>
<p>Through  trial and error, I&#8217;ve developed a daily routine to keep up with the  various social media accounts I use. When I was working full-time  outside the home, I had to <em>really </em>use my time wisely since I  could not be engaged in social medial all day, but still wanted to <strong><a title="Tips for Managing and Maintaining a Social Media  Presence" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/managing-social-media-presence-tips/">maintain a social media presence</a></strong>. As you know, it&#8217;s  not enough to just have an account, you have to actually use it and be  &#8220;present&#8221; for your social media efforts to work.</p>
<p>Let me share a  sample schedule of how I used social media when I was working full-time.  In the mornings, I had the benefit of an empty home after my husband  left for work and dropped off my daughter at day-care. Since I started  work a little later than him, this meant that <strong>I had about an hour  each morning to do my social media/blog work</strong> before I had to get  myself ready. In this hour, I created the following <strong>social media  routine</strong> and would do most (and sometimes all) of the following.</p>
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<h2>Sample  Social Media Routine</h2>
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<li>Open up my browser and open a tab for  each of these sites: <a id="g9.0" title="ping.fm" href="http://ping.fm/">ping.fm</a>,  myspace, <a id="fo6d" title="ModernMami on Facebook" href="http://www.facebook.com/modernmami">facebook</a>, <a id="tm9x" title="ModernMami on  Plurk" href="http://www.plurk.com/modernmami">plurk</a>, <a id="ppn2" title="ModernMami on Twitter" href="http://twitter.com/modernmami">twitter</a>, <a id="u3bu" title="gmail" href="http://gmail.com/">gmail</a>, <a id="d.5r" title="ModernMami's Google Reader Shared Items" href="http://www.google.com/reader/shared/modernmami">google  reader</a>, and <a id="v0s_" title="ModernMami on Delicious" href="http://delicious.com/modernmami">delicious</a>. As I  completed my tasks for each site, I would close the tab and move on to  the next.</li>
<li>Post a <strong>status update</strong> using ping.fm.</li>
<li><strong>MySpace</strong>:  Even then, MySpace was slowly being phased out of my social media  routine, but since I (still) have some real-life friends and family that  use it, I would check in every morning. It was a very quick check of  messages, comments, and friends&#8217; status updates.</li>
<li><strong>Facebook</strong>:  I would login and respond to any comments or messages sent to me. I  would post a &#8220;Happy Birthday!&#8221; message for those with birthdays that day  and possibly leave a comment or two on others&#8217; profiles. If I had  something to promote &#8211; a contest or my latest post &#8211; I would do so via  my fan page and/or group. Of course, I&#8217;d also take care of any requests  that were waiting for action &#8211; friend requests, even invites, page  suggestions, etc.</li>
<li><strong>Plurk</strong>: Though not a common  microblogging platform, it&#8217;s one I was exploring at the time and  continue to participate in since I&#8217;ve made some connections that are not  elsewhere. Again, I would quickly check in on any replies to my updates  and try to comment on one or two people&#8217;s updates.</li>
<li><strong>Twitter</strong>:  Similar to the rest, I would login to Twitter and be sure to respond to  any @ replies or DMs I received overnight. I would also review new  followers and follow-back appropriately (or not). I would then leave  this tab open since I would often interact with various other folks that  were up early like me.</li>
<li><strong>E-mail</strong>: I use gmail for my  e-mail, which has the ability to star items you need to come back to and  label your messages for finding later. Simple Mom has a <a id="zyqd" title="nice system" href="http://simplemom.net/easier-email/">nice  system</a> she uses for managing her inbox that I try to follow. I  would definitely take about 10 minutes each morning to check urgent  items and clear out the &#8220;junk&#8221; so that it didn&#8217;t clutter up my inbox.</li>
<li><strong>Google  Reader</strong>: I didn&#8217;t always have time to get to reading some blog posts  &#8211; it just depended on how much time I spent on the other tabs. But,  some days, I&#8217;d be able to read a few posts from those blogs you &#8220;must&#8221;  read each day.</li>
<li><strong>Delicious</strong>: Since I have the delicious  plugin installed on Firefox, I&#8217;d only need to open this up if I saw  there was new activity in my network or if anyone had sent me a link.  But, in browsing resources bookmarked by those in my network, I&#8217;d often  find a great article or tip or even a blog post idea.</li>
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<p>Each  morning I&#8217;d go through my routine and get a great head start on my day &#8211;  social media wise, anyway. Then, during the day while I was at work, I  would monitor twitter, facebook, and e-mail <a title="Using a Smart Phone to Be More Productive" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/smart-phone-productivity/">using my  smart phone</a>. Of course, I wasn&#8217;t always on it. But if I took a quick  break from my desk and especially during lunch time, I&#8217;d be able to  update my status (again using ping.fm) and check in on comments.</p>
<p>In  the evenings, after dinner and the nightly bed-time/bath routine for  baby girl, I&#8217;d take another hour (sometimes two depending on how busy  the husband was) to go through the same routine. However, I would focus  less on checking comments/messages and more so on clearing out e-mail  and writing a blog post.</p>
<p><strong>Wondering what I do now that I&#8217;m not  working full-time?</strong> The same. Though I don&#8217;t always have the house to  myself in the mornings anymore, I still take a half-hour to an hour  each morning and use the same social media routine. The days that baby  girl goes to preschool, I do this routine after I&#8217;ve dropped her off.  The days she&#8217;s home with me, I use the time when she&#8217;s eating breakfast  and watching her morning cartoons. If I&#8217;m lucky and she&#8217;s overslept, I  go through my routine before she wakes up.</p>
<p>Through the rest of  the day, I periodically check in on social media and e-mail. As I  mentioned in a previous post, I tend to login again mid-day and in the  evening. I try to follow my social media routine each time, but  depending on other projects/tasks I have to get done, I may cut my  routine in half during those times.</p>
<p><strong>Seem like a lot to-do?</strong> Keep in mind that you don&#8217;t have to have accounts for all the sites  that I do. You will find those that serve your needs the best.  Truthfully, though, once you get into a routine, it will become habit  and not be so overwhelming.</p>
<p><strong>Additional tips</strong>:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Always  answer </strong>@ replies, DMs, comments, etc. for the various networks you  belong to. It&#8217;s so frustrating when you&#8217;re trying to talk to someone and  they ignore you, isn&#8217;t it? Don&#8217;t ignore.</li>
<li><strong>Catch what you can  while logged on</strong>. You won&#8217;t be able to read every single status  update for every single network you belong to.</li>
<li><strong>Retweet </strong>interesting  statuses, <strong>share </strong>good information, and useful links/resources.  Your readers will appreciate it and will come to know that you have  valuable information.</li>
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<p><strong>Have you already created your  social media routine?</strong></p>
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		<title>How Do You Work From Home When Sick?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you do on days when you&#8217;re not feeling great? If you&#8217;re a blogger, do you force yourself to post something that day even if you know it won&#8217;t be a great post? If you run a home business, do you put business on hold until you feel better? Or do you push through [...]]]></description>
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<p>What do you do on days when you&#8217;re not feeling great? If you&#8217;re a blogger, do you force yourself to post something that day even if you know it won&#8217;t be a great post? If you run a home business, do you put business on hold until you feel better? Or do you push through and work regardless of how you feel?</p>
<p>When I was <strong><a id="m4ru" title="Working Moms - Work Outside the Home Moms - Information, Resources, and Tips" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/working-mom/">working outside the home</a></strong>, I knew just what to do. It was easy. I&#8217;d just take a sick day and spend some quality time with my TV catching up on shows I&#8217;d been missing all week. Now that I <strong><a id="aui." title="Work at Home Moms - WAHM Resources &amp; Tips" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/wahm/">work at home</a></strong>, I feel <em>guilty </em>if I take a &#8220;sick day.&#8221; If I don&#8217;t do something &#8211; write a post, check email, whatever it may be &#8211; I feel like I just wasted the day. I think the main reason is that I&#8217;m not getting paid for my &#8220;sick day&#8221; like I used to when I worked full-time. I know that if I&#8217;m not working, I&#8217;m not earning anything either.</p>
<p>So, how do you handle it? What do those of you that <strong>work from home</strong> do to ensure you don&#8217;t fall behind? Do you seek help? Do you just take a day or two off and deal with it when feeling better?</p>
<p>I did a quick search online to see what others have to say about this. However, most of the articles I came across were about how to get work done when your kid is sick. The suggestion for that? Reschedule, use a laptop to be more mobile, and work after the kids have gone to bed. And that makes sense, of course.</p>
<p>But, what about when <strong><em>you </em></strong>are too sick to think straight? There&#8217;s no rescheduling or shifting around that&#8217;s going to fix that problem. This article, <em><a id="y0lp" title="There Are No Family Sick Days for Freelancing Moms" href="http://allfreelancewriting.com/2009/11/18/freelancing/business-career/there-are-no-family-sick-days-for-freelancing-moms/">There Are No Family Sick Days for Freelancing Moms</a></em>, touches on free time for those that work from home as freelancers, but doesn&#8217;t offer any solutions either.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m looking to you now. I know that many of you have a <a title="Home Business with FHTM - Disclosure: If you purchase products via this link or become a representative, I'll receive a commission." href="http://fhtmus.com/modernmami">home-based business</a>, freelance, and work at home as bloggers. And, you&#8217;ve been doing it far longer than I have. Tell me, <strong>how do you keep business going when you&#8217;re sick?</strong></p>
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		<title>How Young Children can Help with the Laundry</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 18:53:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Early last month, I posed the question, &#8220;Can Preschoolers Help Clean?&#8221; and provided a list of chores for preschoolers to do around the house. Many of you agreed that yes, preschoolers can indeed help clean around the house and even provided a few additional suggestions based on what your kids help with. One of the [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Early last month, I posed the question, &#8220;<em><a id="yyrc" title="How Preschoolers Can Help with Chores" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/preschooler-cleaning-chores/">Can Preschoolers Help Clean?</a></em>&#8221; and provided a list of <strong><a id="uqu2" title="Chores Preschoolers Can Do" href="http://www.modernmami.com/wahm/preschooler-cleaning-chores/">chores for preschoolers</a></strong> to do around the house. Many of you agreed that yes, preschoolers can indeed help clean around the house and even provided a few additional suggestions based on what your kids help with.</p>
<p>One of the original suggestions I had listed was to have your young child help with folding clothes. As I thought about it more, I realized that my daughter actually helps with pretty much <em>all </em>aspects of doing the laundry. If we involve her, she can be of help from beginning to end when it&#8217;s laundry day. In case you hadn&#8217;t thought about it, let me share the ways your young children can be of more help with this task.</p>
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	<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/fl4y/4397497763/"><img class="size-full wp-image-1979" title="Kid and Laundry Basket" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/4397497763_44d93eefcb.jpg" alt="Kid and Laundry Basket" width="450" height="326" /></a>
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<h3>How your Toddler or Preschooler can Help with the Laundry</h3>
<ul>
<li><strong>Sort clothes</strong> &#8211; Your child can easily take the clothes out of the hamper and help you properly create the necessary piles. On our laundry day, what we do is start a few piles on our floor, tell her what each pile is for (most are recognizable by color), and have her sort her own clothes.</li>
<li><strong>Load washer</strong> &#8211; We put her step stool in front of the washing machine, bring a pile over, and have her help throw the clothes into the washer. It&#8217;s so simple, but she loves doing it.</li>
<li><strong>Load dryer</strong> &#8211; Similarly, when it&#8217;s time to change out the loads, she stands next to the dryer and pushes in the clothes as one of us takes them out of the washing machine. Sometimes, she takes the dryer sheet and throws it in too before we start up the dryer.
<ul>
<li>Once the clothes are dry, she also helps us take them out of the dryer and throw them on the couch.</li>
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<li><strong>Fold clothes</strong> &#8211; Though the clothes may not end up folded perfectly, your preschooler can help fold his/her clothes or even some towels. Their clothes are small, so they’re perfect for little hands to fold. They may be able to hep fold other clothes, depending on the size, but generally, their own clothes work best.</li>
<li><strong>Hang up clothes</strong> &#8211; Grab a stack of hangers, and lay out a few shirts on the couch. Your preschooler can easily slide a hanger into each shirt, and make a new pile of ready to hang clothes. This also works best with their own clothes and the smaller hangers.</li>
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<p>Now that you know <strong><em>how </em>your preschooler can help out with the laundry</strong>, let&#8217;s think about why this is actually a good thing for not only them, but you as well.</p>
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<h3>Why Helping with the Laundry is Good for your Preschooler</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m sure there are many more reasons why helping with the laundry is beneficial to young children, but here is a short list of the benefits I&#8217;ve seen:</p>
<ul>
<li>Color recognition</li>
<li>Recognizing patterns</li>
<li>Categorization</li>
<li>Coordination</li>
<li>Feeling helpful</li>
<li>Teamwork</li>
<li>Teaches responsibility and pride in taking care of what we own</li>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">Photo by Ruth from Flickr</p>
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<h3>How Letting your Preschooler Help with the Laundry Helps You</h3>
<p>Getting some help with the housework is always a good thing, right? But, particularly if you <a title="Tips for Working from Home with Children - WAHM &amp; SAHM Resources" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/wahm/"><strong>work from home</strong></a> or are striving to create more <a title="Work-Life Balance Tips &amp; Resources for the WAHM" href="http://www.modernmami.com/tag/work-life-balance/"><strong>work-life balance</strong></a> in your days, then involving your young children in daily chores will help. You may think that if you just do the chores yourself, you&#8217;ll be able to get them done faster. However, how often do you find yourself interrupted when doing one task because your son or daughter wants some type of attention? Do you <em>really </em>get it done very fast?</p>
<p>Keeping them involved will allow you to have conversations with your kids while getting things done. It lessens the feeling of stress because you&#8217;re spending time with them while doing housework. They will feel like a &#8220;big helper&#8221; and you may find that it helps the overall mood in the house.</p>
<p><strong>Do your kids currently help with the laundry? Do you feel it&#8217;s a learning experience for them?</strong></p>
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