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	<title>modernmami™ &#187; monotony</title>
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		<title>Before &amp; After Blogging</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 04:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Edwards</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[****Originally posted on Scholastic Parent Voices. But, I wanted to share with you as well.**** Before I started blogging my daily routine looked like this: work, pick up kid, cook, take care of kid, watch TV, sleep. Lather, rinse and repeat. Now, while there&#8217;s nothing wrong with that, and I was happy, you can see [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><em>****Originally posted on <a href="http://parentsblog.scholastic.com/blog/2009/05/before-after-blogging.html">Scholastic Parent Voices</a>. But, I wanted to share with you as well.****</em></p>
<p>Before I started blogging my daily routine looked like this: work, pick up kid, cook, take care of kid, watch TV, sleep. <em>Lather, rinse and repeat</em>.</p>
<p>Now, while there&#8217;s nothing wrong with that, and I <em>was </em>happy, you can see why it might become a bit monotonous. There was no interaction with other parents in that routine. The people I worked with at the time were either older (with older kids) or younger (with no kids). No one had a child close in age to mine (at the time she wasn&#8217;t even 1).</p>
<p>My friends fit into similar categories. They either weren&#8217;t even married or were married with no kids. Those who did have kids lived further away so I wasn&#8217;t able to see them often.</p>
<p>You might think that I could have joined a local mommy group in order to connect with other moms. However, most of the mommy groups are catered for <a id="if0u" title="SAHM" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/sahm/">stay at home moms</a>. I am a <a id="zdz0" title="working mom" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/working-mom/">working mom</a>. That means I&#8217;m unable to attend events during the week and believe me when I say that <em>none </em>of the groups I looked at had events on the weekends.</p>
<p>So, I found myself interacting mainly with my husband and with my own mom, who is our childcare provider when we&#8217;re at work. Until I started <a id="w53v" title="blogging" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/blogging/">blogging</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/44548980@N00/985102853/"><img style="float: right; margin: 0 0 10 10;" title="Village" src="http://www.modernmami.com/wp-content/images/985102853_8c071e3496.jpg" alt="Village" width="323" height="323" /></a>I began blogging in 2006 after I read one of those “here’s how you can <a id="iczm" title="make money working from home" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/wahm/">make money working from home</a>” e-books. But, after starting my blog and eventually finding myself on <a id="iefe" title="twitter" href="http://twitter.com/modernmami">twitter</a>, <a id="ukk2" title="facebook" href="http://profile.to/modernmami/">facebook</a>, and other <a id="m3p1" title="social networks" href="http://www.modernmami.com/category/social-networking/">social networks</a>, I found that blogging was so much more. I was able to actually connect with other moms, and dads, who knew what I was talking about. They <em>got it</em>. Sometimes, they even helped by sharing their experience or tips.</p>
<p>You know the saying. &#8220;<em>It takes a village to raise a child</em>.&#8221; It was like I had found my own village.</p>
<p>Fast forward a few years and I&#8217;ve now actually met some <a id="w._0" title="local mom bloggers" href="http://www.modernmami.com/social-networking/seaworld-mommy-blogger-tweetup/">local mom bloggers</a> and have attended several <a id="qowy" title="tweet-ups" href="http://www.modernmami.com/blogging/orlando-tweet-up-recap/">tweet-ups</a>. I&#8217;m also connected with many <a id="j.jf" title="moms on twitter" href="http://www.modernmami.com/social-networking/moms-on-twitter/">moms on twitter</a>.</p>
<p>And my daily routine? It now looks a little like this: social networking, work, pick up kid, cook, play with kid, blog, sleep. Or like this: work, kid, house, tweet-up, sleep. Or maybe even like this: work, kid, husband, blog, social networking, sleep.</p>
<p>It <em>varies</em>. And <em>that </em>is a <strong>major improvement</strong> over monotony.</p>
<p><em><span style="font-size: 11px;">Photo by <a title="Link to Rita Crane Photography's photostream" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/44548980@N00/">Rita Crane Photography</a></span></em></p>
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