Comments on: Hay Que Evitar (You Have to Avoid…)

By: Lisa Perez

Lisa Perez — Sat, 10 Sep 2011 14:45:00 +0000

You’re so right. It’s weird but marriage is like that. I avoid some topics (hello, money! – lol) just to avoid arguments. It has saved me numerous times. I’m sure he avoided some stuff too — Sometimes you just have to. Great post!

By: Daniela

Daniela — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 19:44:00 +0000

I grew up hearing that saying and I must admit I struggle with putting it to practice. Ive learned that in certain situations it is best to think “hay que evitar.”

By: Rachel White

Rachel White — Tue, 06 Sep 2011 17:04:00 +0000

I have heard this saying so many times and I have avoided many arguments. This is a great saying.

By: Nikki @ Mommy Factor

Nikki @ Mommy Factor — Tue, 06 Sep 2011 11:07:00 +0000

when I was younger and i always spoke up, then learned most people dont want to hear what you have to say especially when it’s different then they want/expect. now i pick and choose. i still think it’s important to speak up but you have to choose when and for what reason. sometimes it’s really not worth it the argument just to have my day. other times it’s 110% worth it

By: Lee Reyes-Fournier

Lee Reyes-Fournier — Tue, 06 Sep 2011 02:41:00 +0000

I live by the motto: no dejes nada por dentro. Speaking your truth and being in integrity is more important than avoiding problems. As I have aged, gracefully mind you, I have developed some tact to go with this attitude. As my people say: No tengo pelo en la lengua.